
Narrated by Valentina Mustafa and Aseya Ahmed
Valentina Petrovna Shveda is in Kagarlik, 70km from Kiev, a few years old and wedged between her parents, posing for a portrait. And now she sits with me over smetana and sour cherries and talks of what happened next: the childhood of travel, moving every five or six years with her parents as they taught Russian and Ukrainian, and then, grown up, working in a bookshop in Kiev when the Bahraini she would marry walked in, looking for books on art. “Bahrain? I didn’t even know of it. It was a little dot on a big map.” But she left when she got her papers, left with Aseya, then 3 years old, to a Bahraini family of Bastakis who traced their ancestry to Bastak in what is now Iran. They spoke Persian at home, and Arabic outside; Valentina could barely speak English. “Telephone calls were very, very expensive. We wrote letters once a month and that was our relief for homesickness.”